how do you decide which shafts ( i use graphite) are right for you? stiff, flex, etc? thanks!
Most average golfers will do OK with graphite shafts for woods / hybrids and steel shafts for irons.
Steel shafts are basically chosen by type of flex. There are some additional upgrade features for steel shafts that you can buy to improve feel. Ping has a nice cushion shaft that improves feel. Rifle shafts have a nice feel as well.
Graphite shafts come with many variables including flex, kick point and weight.
Pick the right shaft for your swing type and speed. For example a medium swing speed (80-90mph) will fit better with a regular flex shaft and a faster swing speed will do better with a stiff flex. Golfers that have trouble getting the ball high in the air may want a shaft with a low kick point that helps raise your launch angle.
Therefore, considering that the various shaft types will affect your shot (for good or bad depending on your swing), it’s a good idea to visit a pro shop and have them do a swing analysis and give you a recommendation before buying clubs. Golf is tough enough as it is without further handicapping ourselves with a ill-fit set of clubs.